I'm going to be robust on this one. We don't provide for the proper education of our brightest, we traumatise and ostracise them, and that's their fault? It's right up alongside "he had enough air to say he was suffocating" as abusive BS. Their needs aren't those of a neurotypical, I fully agree with Greta Thunberg, I had no childhood because I was reading what I needed to make sense of the world when nobody was teaching me at an appropriate level. Aged 8y6m I was at age 14. At 16, I was using postgrad maths techniques my examiners had never heard of. I was ostracised as a result, and nobody did a thing to help. That's not disordered development, it's abuse. We're different, sure, but don't use that as an excuse for not making proper provision for our human rights. 1% of humanity or more, perhaps 100 000 000 human beings. We've barely moved on from de Winter and Mandalay, or King George V's youngest, Prince John, kept out of sight becaise he was autistic. I went undiagnosed for my entire working life, so I refute the entire thesis.
What I'm inapable of judging is to what extent my parents may have been told things I never was told. The way I was discouraged from learning to drive. How my socialisation was actively discouraged, even after university, in a way never done with my siblings. I was fortunate to marry, a decade later, although cancer took her soon after. But like so many others on here, it's surreal to consider a relationship with someone not on the spectrum. The communications issues are too great. It's widely though you're likely to relate best with someone within 10-15 IQ points either side of yours. There wasn't anyone above me, and precious few over 150 below! I didn't have a bearing on that, but after discovering nothing but mental turnips around, I became discouraged. That's not disorder, that's a disordered society. There's hundreds of thousands in the same boat, from what I see of the ladies on here.