Do u have romantic preference?

[Crossbreed]

I have so many things I am attracted to is it wrong to feel disappointed if someone u end up with does not have them?
For me as personality I like:
Artistic ability and someone really interested in art in a way that pulls me too them
Interest in music
Positive personality in the sense they are not overwhelming negative about things but the more positive the better.
Intellectual and likes books
Like kids and is a good dad if they were
Some confidence.
Some dress sense
I like trucker caps but not past the age of about 37
I am 37 now.
I like skater boys but not emo I just like someone who does not mind going to the skate park to let some stress off
I also like guys who wear beanies
Really kind personality like just really helpful and chivellous and geniunely very caring eg like buy pads for you and cover u up with a blanket when u are cold that is a MUST for me
And someone who is a Christian and if not is open to having a relationship with God not always just because I have either but because they geniunely see God somehow or they are open to faith systems and question it
Like animals and nature
But sometimes like if I would sit in the tunnel in the park, they would as well.

It is okay to have preferences about outward romantic traits.
But once you have spent time with him, does he have personality traits that are a deal-breaker?
Is he misogynous to most women besides you?
Does he get "too" excited about other women more than just acknowledging that they are pretty?
Is he responsible with his money and self-care, generally (not necessarily thin)...?

As a single person, "pretty" certainly got my attention, but
"Could I live with the person underneath?" was the real question.

 

[Au Naturel]

I like grumpy older men. I think they're adorable and you feel special when you can make them smile.

Sorry. I'm married.

 

[Rogue Princess]

Sorry. I'm married.

all the grumps are taken

 

[Outdated]

all the grumps are taken

Nah, we're everywhere.

 

[Ella Spell]

I like grumps too. And beer bellies.

 

[Rogue Princess]

I like grumps too. And beer bellies.

Big grumpy teddy bears

 

[Fino]

I like when they don't exist.

 

[Ella Spell]

Men who don't diet.

 

[Outdated]

You girls are making me feel special. Thank you.

 

[paloftoon]

I tend to like younger looking men that have handsome faces to me and shorter hair. They don't have to be muscular, but could be, and they should enjoy being physical with me. I also like a man who doesn't smoke cigs or bad smelling weed, won't smoke inside the home, and has a respectable career. Someone who isn't too shy and is okay with me as the way that I am.

 

[Dagan]

I feel dumb for working out, now, haha.

 

[BewilderedPerson]

Yes, be female and be breathing. Those are my preferences.

 

[Catwoman]

6ft 3, blonde, meat head, no teeth, can crack a walnut with their nipple.

 

[Crossbreed]

...can crack a walnut with their nipple.

(Can nipples do that...!?)

 

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

It is okay to have preferences about outward romantic traits.
But once you have spent time with him, does he have personality traits that are a deal-breaker?
Is he misogynous to most women besides you?
Does he get "too" excited about other women more than just acknowledging that they are pretty?
Is he responsible with his money and self-care, generally (not necessarily thin)...?

As a single person, "pretty" certainly got my attention, but
"Could I live with the person underneath?" was the real question.

Yes you are right, it is important that they are kind and caring and you have similar beliefs and values.
Some things may always be different however it is important core values and beliefs are similar.
The inner core is very important otherwise it becomes very different and I think if some of those things are a bit different then it is important the person at least attracts you with some qualities they have. I think attraction is important on a intellectual level and for me like an artistic level too.
I do not think I could be with anyone who did not get my love of art or books.
I have faith yea but for me if the person is open to belief systems and believes in God then that is also important to me or can see how important faith is to me and get something out of it too.

 

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

6ft 3, blonde, meat head, no teeth, can crack a walnut with their nipple.

Yea well I bet that is very easy to find in this day and age

 

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

Men who don't diet.

Yes so true for me though I appreciate someone who cares about health but yes I do not mind if they eat a bit more than me at times or do not push away desert

 

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

I tend to like younger looking men that have handsome faces to me and shorter hair. They don't have to be muscular, but could be, and they should enjoy being physical with me. I also like a man who doesn't smoke cigs or bad smelling weed, won't smoke inside the home, and has a respectable career. Someone who isn't too shy and is okay with me as the way that I am.

I like looks sometimes a pretty man is nice but inside more important.
But if the inside is not attracting u then u have problems because outer attraction on appearance may wear off

 

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

Big grumpy teddy bears

I do not like grumps.
I like men who wake up with a smile on their face and are eating breakfast or drinking coffee at the breakfast table

 

[paloftoon]

I like looks sometimes a pretty man is nice but inside more important.
But if the inside is not attracting u then u have problems because outer attraction on appearance may wear off

So true. I want a good combination to me for "everything". And I feel I offer enough back in return. I don't want someone I'm not attracted to at the beginning- if they have to get a make over, even if it's temporary, I love that kind of superficiality, lol.