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Do u have romantic preference?

lovely_darlingprettybaby said:
I have so many things I am attracted to is it wrong to feel disappointed if someone u end up with does not have them?
For me as personality I like:
Artistic ability and someone really interested in art in a way that pulls me too them
Interest in music
Positive personality in the sense they are not overwhelming negative about things but the more positive the better.
Intellectual and likes books
Like kids and is a good dad if they were
Some confidence.
Some dress sense
I like trucker caps but not past the age of about 37
I am 37 now.
I like skater boys but not emo I just like someone who does not mind going to the skate park to let some stress off
I also like guys who wear beanies
Really kind personality like just really helpful and chivellous and geniunely very caring eg like buy pads for you and cover u up with a blanket when u are cold that is a MUST for me
And someone who is a Christian and if not is open to having a relationship with God not always just because I have either but because they geniunely see God somehow or they are open to faith systems and question it
Like animals and nature
But sometimes like if I would sit in the tunnel in the park, they would as well.
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It is okay to have preferences about outward romantic traits.
But once you have spent time with him, does he have personality traits that are a deal-breaker?
Is he misogynous to most women besides you?
Does he get "too" excited about other women more than just acknowledging that they are pretty?
Is he responsible with his money and self-care, generally (not necessarily thin)...?

As a single person, "pretty" certainly got my attention, but
"Could I live with the person underneath?" was the real question.
 
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I tend to like younger looking men that have handsome faces to me and shorter hair. They don't have to be muscular, but could be, and they should enjoy being physical with me. I also like a man who doesn't smoke cigs or bad smelling weed, won't smoke inside the home, and has a respectable career. Someone who isn't too shy and is okay with me as the way that I am.
 
Catwoman said:
...can crack a walnut with their nipple.
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(Can nipples do that...!?)
 
Crossbreed said:
It is okay to have preferences about outward romantic traits.
But once you have spent time with him, does he have personality traits that are a deal-breaker?
Is he misogynous to most women besides you?
Does he get "too" excited about other women more than just acknowledging that they are pretty?
Is he responsible with his money and self-care, generally (not necessarily thin)...?

As a single person, "pretty" certainly got my attention, but
"Could I live with the person underneath?" was the real question.
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Yes you are right, it is important that they are kind and caring and you have similar beliefs and values.
Some things may always be different however it is important core values and beliefs are similar.
The inner core is very important otherwise it becomes very different and I think if some of those things are a bit different then it is important the person at least attracts you with some qualities they have. I think attraction is important on a intellectual level and for me like an artistic level too.
I do not think I could be with anyone who did not get my love of art or books.
I have faith yea but for me if the person is open to belief systems and believes in God then that is also important to me or can see how important faith is to me and get something out of it too.
 
paloftoon said:
I tend to like younger looking men that have handsome faces to me and shorter hair. They don't have to be muscular, but could be, and they should enjoy being physical with me. I also like a man who doesn't smoke cigs or bad smelling weed, won't smoke inside the home, and has a respectable career. Someone who isn't too shy and is okay with me as the way that I am.
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I like looks sometimes a pretty man is nice but inside more important.
But if the inside is not attracting u then u have problems because outer attraction on appearance may wear off
 
lovely_darlingprettybaby said:
I like looks sometimes a pretty man is nice but inside more important.
But if the inside is not attracting u then u have problems because outer attraction on appearance may wear off
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So true. I want a good combination to me for "everything". And I feel I offer enough back in return. I don't want someone I'm not attracted to at the beginning- if they have to get a make over, even if it's temporary, I love that kind of superficiality, lol.
 
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