Again not date. Just friendships.
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Again not date. Just friendships.
Sorry I don't buy that. I wish I can take pictures and videos too prove it but that would make things worse if I got caught but trust me if you see what I see in NYC it's not true.Single Christian women generally are not friends with other single men in the way you have described. Religious people are strict about that kind of thing.
Again. I am trying to support you and prevent further disappointment for you.
Sorry I don't buy that. I wish I can take pictures and videos too prove it but that would make things worse if I got caught but trust me if you see what I see in NYC it's not true.
Tony, trust me, this is an universal principle across devout churches. Perhaps you should go to an Unitarian Universalist church, which I have heard is very relaxed about that kind of thing.I seen and known some of them. I don't know where you are from but it's totally different here in NYC.
You seem to have an excellent success rate with men and married couples in a church.Guys and girls hang out all the time christian or not which is why I get irritated that I can't achieve it no matter how hard I try the past 5 years not even one time a 0% success rate.
The church is not a place to find single women friends.
Tony, trust me, this is an universal principle across devout churches. Perhaps you should go to an Unitarian Universalist church, which I have heard is very relaxed about that kind of thing.
Single beautiful women.Why do you need to be friends with single women rather than be friends with anyone else?
Why do you need to be friends with single women rather than be friends with anyone else?
I've tried to imply this to Tony a number of times. However I didn't have the right words as I believe you do under the circumstances. While I'm not an atheist, neither am I a fan of organized religion in general. That I follow a very different path spiritually speaking.
That to me it just seems a fundamentally inappropriate venue for a man to be looking for a mate rather than spiritual salvation. Yet I also recognize that my perception is going to be alien to most anyone so connected to any organized religion.
So I believe your words might resonate far better with Tony that mine ever can. Thanks.![]()
It's Brooklyn. Based on his posts, he has access to multiple churches, coffee shops, and donut shops, so I assume he has access to a number of opportunities he can pick and choose.Though I also recognize that Tony has limited resources in general to physically go beyond his local community, which may well limit his prospects in seeking out socialization based on some other premise than religion.
It's Brooklyn. Based on his posts, he has access to multiple churches, coffee shops, and donut shops, so I assume he has access to a number of opportunities he can pick and choose.
If I understand him correctly, he is wanting to find a friend who is simultaneously a single attractive woman and engages in deep, platonic emotional conversation with him. I will admit that I do not know where or how he can get that connection, and I don't know if anyone knows.
But if he wants to adjust his expectations of what kind of connections he wants to make, I am sure all of us will have great advice.
You're waiting for your mother to find a therapist for you.Still too early. Once it's approved my mother can look for a therapist.
Tony, this is a great thing. The church isn't kicking you out; the church wants to help you. Go to the consultation and listen to them.a few of them wants to gather with me for a consultation.
I think this whole sequence of events has little to do with autism and much more to do with how tightly coupled emotions are with mindset, but I am not a professional. Get a therapist ASAP. At the consultation, maybe you can suggest that the church find you a therapist or even pay for one until Medicaid covers it.I told my mother she is furious with me blaming me and the way I can't hide my autism and act normal