GET YOURSELF TO AN AUTISM MEETUP EVENT. Look for a woman just like yourself. Then come back here and tell us how it went.
I realize you don't understand social dynamics very well, Tony, but you are creeping women out. It's not because you're autistic but because you're acting creepy, and women spot it almost immediately. You're likely coming across as a predatory man. Women RUN from that.
yup, thats another angry reminder on how people and society have always expected men to have a strong understanding of social dynamics, they expect us to have natural common sense for knowing what is weird and creepy or unacceptable behavior when interacting with women, they expect us to be error or mistake-free when interacting with women.
Unfortuneately, society will never sympathize or be more forgiving if someone has autism, they will be like, "theres never an excuse".
Reminds me of a long written statement from someone, he said:
i read a long written statement from a guy and i thought he got a good solid response, it was a from a guy who expressed anger and resentment, not because of rejection, but because of the times he approached women and he got awkward reactions, he had interactions go wrong that resulted in the woman perceiving him as weird or creepy, or annoying, even though he had good intentions going into the interaction, he feels that even if he ever did get better at approaching women and attracting them, all of those negative/awkward interactions that went wrong will forever be permanent scars on him, scars that will never be healed, and the response he got was:
"It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc.
The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward.
This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS."