My youngest daughter just sent me some photos from an album she found at her dad's place. This is one of me at 21, with my oldest daughter (now 30) she was my third born, when she was a baby, and my oldest son, who would've been about 4 at the time. He is 34 this year and amazing, even with a schizophrenia diagnosis. We get on very well (now, after a long period of estrangement). He is doing a lot of chopping wood for money and making gardens and being a great friend and family member.
My oldest daughter is mother of a nearly 3yr old daughter and is setting up her own business as a fashion designer/pattern maker/seamstress.
Next, is with my fifth born, my second youngest son, who is 25 now. He has started his autism diagnosis process recently. He is working as a batista and loving it. Also teaching himself guitar. This was in our little garage studio, when I lived with my kid's dad (not for 14 years, now, I have a new, also neurodivergent partner, now).
And the last one is me doing a bit of recording with my youngest son, who is 18 now. He recently moved to Melbourne, is working in a supermarket and soon going to start a entry level music and sound production course. He plays guitar, sings, writes songs, is teaching himself coding, drawing Manga art and writing amazing stories in alternate worlds. He has the same phenotype as me (ASD, ADHD, CPTSD and "2e".