You didn't respond to anything I said. I never said it wasn't volatile.
I know you didn't say that.
But I admit I was confused when you said, "I was relieved and grateful to read what it really was," because I don't see anything to be relieved about having a volatile relationship with a parent.
I won't make assumptions by what you mean here, but I can only guess you said this due to lack of full, complete information from OP. Which is what we all do here anyway...