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Tony Ramirez

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  • Life group just started. A new woman showed up was happy until she said her boyfriend. Go ahead roast me I don't give a damn.
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    tree
    From what I've seen you saying, all the love
    belongs to somebody else. And you've got
    none.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Correct.
    tree
    tree
    There's more than one way to look at that.
    I think your main focus is that no girl offers love to you.
    After poring out my heart on Facebook I get two friend requests from married women. No thank you. No wonder why I barely use Facebook. All I get is friend requests from couples.
    tree
    tree
    In fact, nobody in the past week has stood in front of you and said,
    *Look at me. I'm so much better than you. You're just a loser.* Have they?
    Nobody.

    It's you telling yourself that.
    Why be so mean to yourself?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Since my high school and college days I was always mean to myself. I used to think that girls ignored me even though they said hi to me I used to run away.
    tree
    tree
    Carrying on the tradition of telling yourself mean things makes you feel bad.
    Unless you're enjoying feeling bad, why do it?
    I regret not going to Church today. My back hurts and my uncle said it was going to rain. It ended up raining much later. The weather on the news is wrong more than its right.
    A pretty woman asked if I am okay while sitting on a stoop most likely working at the restaurant. She was very friendly. I am starting to realize all woman are not snobs.
    Uplifting Trance music sometimes makes me cry.
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    The sign of a good song. Or a sorrowful state of mind. I cry whilst listening to music fairly regularly, and it's because of both of those reasons.
    S
    Slime_Punk
    Music really is powerful like that. I think it's magic
    All woman have boyfriends or are married in Brooklyn, NYC well at least in my neighborhood. :mad:
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Also it would be embarrassing to talk to a woman then get rejected because she is married or has a boyfriend.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Reading the comments here from the same people I think many of you don't really have autism.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Why do you expect the world to gift you a woman? You need to bring value to a relationship as well as advocating for yourself by approaching them. That is the way the world works and you are no exception.
    I have blurred vision. Glasses are not helping much. Hope it's temporary.
    Crossbreed
    Crossbreed
    See your eye doctor, but allergies do that to me from time-to-time.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I was out today so it's probably allergies.
    I just got a call from a friend at Church after reaching out. She says that I am not cursed. I also reached out to another friend, and she said the same thing and gave me support. These were not from my couple friends. So I am not lonely I guess people with ASD feel lonely when they are not.
    Tired of hearing from the same people why it's all my fault I am single and only have couples as friends.
    DogzSpirit
    DogzSpirit
    Female here. People point out that I don't have girlfriends. They tout their friendships they have, most of which are actually fair weather, walk on eggshells, or superficial at best. I have male friends, but they say that doesn't count. Geeze give me a break. I am choosy in friendships, and expect to be myself without masking. Some accept that, and some do not. PS Being married is not the end all.
    God is cruel. He makes me suffer physical pain and mental pain. He also does not want me to be in a relationship.
    Jordy
    Jordy
    He is.
    S
    Slime_Punk
    I really hope things get better for you. Stay strong!
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Blaming someone else for your problems doesn't excuse you from dealing with your problems. If you want things to change - that's on you.
    I am tired of seeing couples with baby carriages everywhere but I am lonely for life but according to many on this forum it's all my fault.
    Knower of nothing
    Knower of nothing
    And because I know you'll misinterpret this vague wall stuff: No, the wall is not a metaphor for your attempts at getting a relationship and this isn't me telling you to give up on finding a partner or some "just accept being lonely forever" talk. Think deeper.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Even though it's tiny for me I keep hoping for something different positive to happen.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Also I don't go to all the events, meetings and park as passionate years ago because I am still single and all I did was make more friends that are couples.
    Couples at church need to learn to leave me alone like single girls there do.
    S
    Slime_Punk
    When you think about it though, that's like 2 potential friends instead of 1
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That bother me and rub in how they meet their spouse. Its even worse when they have an infant or young kids.
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