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KevinMao133

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  • Still struggling with social anxiety

    Still don’t feel 100% in public, especially around strangers
    Judge
    Judge
    I'm never at my best with strangers. Never have been...never will. Though it's why I "practice" with store clerks and brief, mindless conversations.
    Jonn
    Jonn
    I used to have bona fide social anxiety/phobia decades ago.
    That was then, and this is now. :cool:
    But I am a lot older than you, Kevin...
    M
    Misty Avich
    I struggle with social anxiety in public more than I do around people I know. In situations where I'm less obliged to interact with people (like in public places) the more I feel like people are judging and staring and laughing at me.
    Low key want to hurt someone right now

    I’m too nice, I lack the meanness, the dog that’s needed to be a man
    Skittlebisquit
    Skittlebisquit
    Rough day? Me too. Water, vitamins, decent food. Hygiene, exercise, mental stimulation.

    I'm old and rich enough to die alone but not rich enough to travel or do very much. Plus not well exactly, some health issues. You'll see. It's awesome
    T
    thejuice
    It's best to be assertive and confident rather than being a bully or a pushover.

    To have peace and personal protection you need to be respected which means projecting a strong deterrent to others who might want to violate your boundaries. It's communicating that to challenge you is too high a cost to pay to be worth their while. That if they try something youre willing to take them down with you 😁
    The people that you seem as criminals, as those you need the most

    The people that you let go, are the ones who’s going to commit arson, robbery

    Vape, murder and rape, three things I didn’t do
    People keep asking you stupid questions yet get offended when you display a defiant attitude

    Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Ask stupid questions, be lucky I ain’t laying you out
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    It sounds like you are having a lot of problems with feeling weak and insecure and responding to that by trying to hurt and humiliate others. I encourage you to seek some professional help for your issues with violence.
    tree
    tree
    @KevinMao133
    Can you give examples of the stupid questions people ask?
    What are some of the stupid questions?
    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    @tree give you an example

    People love asking me whether or not I’m single and I usually respond with honesty

    They keep asking me why I’m single like how am I supposed to explain. Why am I single? There is no win in answering that question

    Questions like these
    I can’t stand most people

    Therefore, I’m only going to interact with myself

    Most people are garbage anyways, form a circle and go with it
    Anybody feel like they look ugly regardless

    I feel like I’m not slim enough, too fat, not enough muscles. Also I feel like my head is too small, too much hair
    I just got accused of stealing

    The so called manager disrespected me and treated me like a slave
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sorry @KevinMao133 . You aren't a klepto are you? No judgments . I am just asking.
    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    No I’m not. I’m Asian and I got enough money to live

    We Asians don’t steal, we buy
    T
    thejuice
    ^ true
    It’s 4 am and I can’t sleep

    My anxiety worsens at night and there’s nothing I can do about it
    T
    thejuice
    I hate it too
    MildredHubble
    MildredHubble
    I get this too :-( It's awful. Sometimes it helps if I put something fairly quiet on the TV that is just enough to keep my mind mildly occupied but doesn't require too much concentration. Something I've seen 100s of times. Silence doesn't work for me.
    You know what I love about being autistic?

    We are different, our experiences might be different but we support each other

    I feel like I’m a part of a family. No judgements, people are nicer, people are better and everything is simpler
    AprilR
    AprilR
    It is like a miracle to me that i can speak my mind here. Because i always hid in the past and had no one to talk to even online
    M
    Misty Avich
    I speak my mind here and it offends people and then they ignore me. But if I get offended by something, people just get annoyed and demand I put them on ignore.
    T
    thejuice
    No one should tell anyone to put them on ignore @Misty Avich
    Do you ever feel limited by all the stereotypes and labels given by society?

    I want to to express my opinions, how I really feel but I also don’t, to protect my image as well as reputation

    I feel like every single one of us is a brand. What we say and can’t say are being controlled by whatever we see
    More than ever, I’m proud of my culture as well as what it brings

    Culture made me who I am and will guide me to future success, whichever direction I want to head to next

    Being Chinese, I’m happy that more and more people are recognizing as well as respecting our culture
    jsilver256
    jsilver256
    我说一点中文。 我爱你的国家。

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    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    谢谢你的热爱

    Much appreciated my friend



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