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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Single Hopefully Aspie 47 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    I'm the only failure in my friends circle and everyone else circle and there is nothing I can do to change it.
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    Mary Terry
    I'm confused. Do you or do you not have friends? One day you say you do; the next day you say you don't.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    None I really hang with except during events like acquaintances do.
    Tony Ramirez
    When will my life get better?
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Healing comes from within. You are responsible for your emotions. You've overindulged in the blame game - whether it be college, couples, yoga class or others. I'd suggest you pursue yoga solo. There's thousands of free videos on Youtube. It'd be good for your mind, body & soul. But also read about the 8 limbs of yoga & the sutras.
    Tony Ramirez
    Solo means single right so why the hell then does a women post that crap on her website with pictures then on her damn Instagram show her self with a neanderthal bearded man. Then she's a damn well not a solo woman.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    If you walk around thinking l am a failure, then you perpetuate that. You do yoga, you go to church, your cat loves you, this isn't a failure. Try doing some other things to build up confidence. I walked around and let people treat me like l was a failure, but then l decided to kick that to the curb. I hope you can enjoy this weekend and find something to be thankful for.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I can't think of a damn thing to be thankful for.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sorry to hear this, therapy would really help you at this point, please get on your mom to find you therapy, she is letting you down, or Google therapist yourself, and bring this to her. Good luck Tony.
    Tony Ramirez
    2024 is turning out to be the worst year of my life and it's only halfway over.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Read my post history.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    mainly just dating, women? or even work, jobs, friends as well? i forget, i already know you have been unemployed for most of your life, but how long was the longest you held down a job? and how did you qualify for SSI?
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    It hasn't been a good year for me either. I have had to many fake friends, then l remember why l don't trust people. And l remind myself why l stayed alone most of my life. My best friends actually were guy friends, woman made the worst friends for me.
    Tony Ramirez
    Guy girl friends couples are annoying as hell. Got a damn headache seeing them all around me.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    When they are everywhere you go and every damn women you meet eventually mention a stupid boyfriend or husband it's kind of hard not to get triggered.
    tree
    tree
    It's not the event, it's what you're telling yourself it means that's giving you the bad feeling.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    teens or 20-something couples anger me the most
    Tony Ramirez
    Wasted 5 years of my life no relationship (99% of the women I encounter are in relationships) or traveling. With friends I barely hang out with.
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    Tired
    Tired
    Can you give an example of her flirting with you? What was she saying?
    honeytoast
    honeytoast
    Sounds like she's just trying to chat and be friendly since you've been going there often. No flirting.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Those sites need to be taken down then. They are the worst information online then.
    Tony Ramirez
    Why do I say stupid stuff like I have a 0% odds of talking and hanging with girls when I actually have done it these past few days. 0% means you are not actually there which I was so that's bogus odds.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Great news. You sounded pretty hard on yourself lately. I was hoping you were doing better.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    You call this 0% odds. 😂

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    Misery
    Misery
    "We're all our own worst critics", forget who came up with that quote, but it's a good one.
    Tony Ramirez
    I think you are all right. I need to find and start hanging out with my class including fixed income types not upper class college graduates who stress me out but people like me who did not complete higher education and have working class jobs.
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    Mary Terry
    You have a working-class job? I thought you were unemployed.
    Tony Ramirez
    Had a meltdown at my Thursday group yesterday when they talked about there travel plans on plane to different locations while I been stuck in this hellhole for 4 years.
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    Tired
    Tired
    Whose successful crap am I rubbing in your face? I am just asking you questions, which you seem to be unable to answer. And no, neither me, nor anyone else on this forum think that you're a failure.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Already, one of my friends wants to help me find employment through an agency that helps autistic people find training and work. I am not going to stop her.
    jsilver256
    jsilver256
    If your friends want to do that, can they help you with finding therapy as well?
    Tony Ramirez
    I wasted 5 years of my life for nothing.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Not counting my earlier years still 0% BTW lets say puberty junior high I loved them from high school 14 till now 47 crap nothing zero 0% success.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    oh, you feel you didn't try to get a date or get a girlfriend in your teens or 20s, 30s?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I tried then it did not work. I gave up in my mid 20s and all 30s. Should have never bothered in my early 40s. Caused burnout textationship and more meltdowns.
    Never ever ever. And I never will 0% odds.
    Tony Ramirez
    Will someone actually murder me. That will be the only way I can surly die from this cruel world where women hate me.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Single yes and now I am so tired of trying I just want to end it.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    do you think your parents would mourn for you if you passed away? or do you think at times, your parents don't care for you at times, do feel you are a burden to your parents?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    They would, but then they would get over it because I am a big burden and stressed just because one damn girl can't even be my true friend, never mind even get a damn girlfriend. 0% success 5 years busting my ass socializing while others did not even have to try in only months succeeding made me a real pissed off vulgar mean snappy person by now.
    Tony Ramirez
    I really wish I decided to end my life like I originally planned in early January, thinking it would get better when I did for a few months. What a stupid joke that was on me.
    Tony Ramirez
    Lets be brutally honest every damn women I been encouraging in my neighborhood and nearby all have boyfriends.
    Tony Ramirez
    My swearing has fully come back and if it offends anyone they can go and grow a new backbone. Deal with it. My relationship life sucks, wasting 5 years for nothing and I still can't even get a female friend, the few are never interested in hanging out solo with me ever. The rest are men or married women will only hang solo.
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