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Tony Ramirez

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    I feel much better I am not the only newcomer ostracized at that so called welcoming churched. Many at the newcomers meeting felt and voiced the same thing.
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    Either this terrible year end now or I am going to end it by jumping off the highway or bridge.
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    tree
    You aren't making any attempt yourself to find a therapist,
    is what that sounds like. You expect somebody else to
    do it?
    jsilver256
    jsilver256
    FYI, I did reach out to the church in a couple different ways. They haven’t gotten back.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    are you still feeling this way at the moment?
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    Women make me feel like a worthless piece of garbage.
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    thejuice
    Yeah they can do that to you!
    tree
    tree
    It's what you're telling yourself that gives you that feeling.
    You're reacting to what you say to yourself about them.
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    thejuice
    Ostracisers of all kinds, get on your knees, beg and squeal for our forgiveness!! We are merciful @Tony Ramirez 😂😂😂
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    How can 2024 start out so positive fall apart by me losing friends a textationship, groups, old church and yoga. Trying a new got more envy and ostracism which caused anger than higher education.
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    thejuice
    if the drugs arent working give the doc a call
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    Tony Ramirez
    Me too if I can ever get the funds and so called friends to go with both unlikely.
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    Steelbookcollector217
    hearing of other men on facebook groups disclose similiar cases or stories to Tony, just further made me upset, sometimes i wish i could remove that info from my memory
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    Why is making true friends that don't end up ostracizing me in the end is so difficult for me?
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    thejuice
    Well a greeter who doesn't greet should be fired. I would argue she is excluding you on the basis of her prejudice to autism. She is an Ableist. Exclusion is bullying plain and simple, no matter when they claim innocence. Its the weapon of the weak, passive aggression. They cannot back up their hostility so they avoid any confrontation whatsoever)
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    Tony Ramirez
    @thejuice ⭐ I agree in a certain new church I am trying which I won't mention the name even though I want to so bad. I would give you a winner but the likes are still broken.
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    Tony Ramirez
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    My sleep has improved because I am only back on Seroquel. It hasn't helped much with my anger or depression because women won't stop ostracizing me in social places where leaders of the groups say to talk to "everyone".
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    Steelbookcollector217
    yeah, i still sometimes get angry that i was born male, and i get more pissed off whenever people say get a sex change, because people who get sex changes, still retain elements of the gender they were naturally born
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    Tony Ramirez
    That does not count your chromosomes are always still male. There was an fictional episode of Henry danger it was funny actually where Henry walked into a machine was actually transformed into a teenage girl. That's the only way it could happen.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Everything chromosomes private parts and all has to be changed meaning that you can even get pregnant. Using a special transformation machine I did it in fictional Henry Danger.
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    I freaking hate Park Slope with all these damn snobs I wish they would all go to hell they ostracized my ass all the damn time.
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    I knew it was to good to be true. My life still sucks. The past few days were all a facade.
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    tree
    This is the pattern I have seen.
    You are irritated and depressed most of the time, then there
    will be a brief 2 or 3 day break where you're neutral to positive.
    Then, crash. Back to irritated depression.
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    Black and white thinking nearly ruined the day again. After service I felt ostracized again then approached a women from game night who I thought ignored me. We had a 20 minute conversation. I felt better.
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    I'm at church now. I have a headache my body hurts and I feel like I am actually going to pass out. Yes I was greeted but now I am ignored ostracized. My body physically hurts.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Except now with all the ostracized everywhere I am actually getting headaches and feeling physically sick.
    tree
    tree
    You wish you knew how to be part of the group.
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    thejuice
    Yes it's so painful I'd leave gatherings, eventually opting not to go altogether.
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