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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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  • Tony Ramirez
    Being happy and positive these 4 days did crap to please these ungrateful's.i was still shamned ostracized over talked uninvited and left out
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm swearing again.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I looked im lost without help I asked but that was a waste of time
    tree
    tree
    Have you ever actually contacted a resource/place yourself?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    No not yet. My mother is talking to me. Things at home are fine. These friends pumped crap in my head making me think I am normal just socialize instant gf walk in a place get a job etc. then they contradict themselves
    Tony Ramirez
    I started to swear again when I was ignored and having two word conversations with certain people again. It was building up these past few days
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    But you will still be singled out. Game night is turning into dudes night. Only the two hosted are women. Every newcomer is a dude. Also I am feeling more unwelcomed everytime I go. Do what you want to do. UK and US culture is practically the same now.
    T
    thejuice
    Yes there is a lot of American cultural import here, inevitably we start adopting it.
    T
    thejuice
    Tony Ramirez
    I am obsessed with watching ASMR videos of women on YouTube.
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    T
    thejuice
    I don't like the whisper because of my sensory sensitivities but I can see the appeal. We are in a touch and kindness starved society, a bit of personal attention could do lonely people good. It's at least the illusion of someone caring for you.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    She is now my favorite.
    T
    thejuice
    No whispering 😍
    Tony Ramirez
    Whenever I say 'Hey' to anyone I am always ostracized by them everytime. I try to stop doing it but sometimes it happens without me realizing it.
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Perhaps try and meet a simple glance with a smile. If they smile back, then perhaps introduce yourself.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's what I have been trying to do in social events. I did it today at a volunteer event that was being hosted I passed by. I did sign up to see if I can involved BTW.
    Tony Ramirez
    Good riddance to that past textationship. New season. Two new places too accept heal not push and accuse people.
    Tony Ramirez
    IRL dreams that are 100% happening in my life are making me sleep all night. It's the 1% odd dreams that would wake me up and keep me up for hours.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Like the recent dreams that I went outside without an umbrella was mad and got wet no one cared. It was at the cafe and was ignored. Slept like a baby after.
    Tony Ramirez
    When I had a meltdown after church feeling ostracized I was actually told by S and a new friend she said I was not being ignored that I am the most noticed and welcomed person there.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    S was the first person to talk to me at game night to find the new church BTW. Told them I am autism. Accepted. New friend is also ND with don't want to disclose.
    T
    thejuice
    I think the truth is somewhere in between. Probably a lot of times you are included, but occasionally excluded which hurts a lot (almost like a death). With our mind's negative bias, those times we are hurt are amplified, especially if were on a downward mood swing.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Sav you know her name from the DM says I was always included. I am the most noticed person. I told them personally my past college young adult I was ignored. She even forgot to say goodbye at the cafe then apologized after. Not the first time other women did that a few times this past two weeks.
    db05
    Hey Tony, have you ever tried Hiki? Dating app for autistics. Personally, I hate that stuff and would love nothing more than to get rid of my cell phone, but maybe it could help you meet a nice autistic girl? Maybe even having the same frustrations as you are.

    Hiki | Autism, ADHD, Neurodivergent Dating App & Social Community
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I sure as hell have not meet a single one in the 20+ places I wasted my life socializing the past 5 years there were fakers that were really neurotypical and I thought were ones until I saw them talk and socializing then they were definitely neurotypical.

    I'm petrified trying online dating cuz I know I will get no responses.
    T
    thejuice
    Online dating is a waste of money and time for most men
    Tony Ramirez
    I was in the cafe trying to watch The Cable Guy 1996 movie until the place filled up with couples and platonic guy girls when one sat in front I left half way. I put this in bolting. I am heading home to watch the rest of the movie.
    Tony Ramirez
    Why do so many people say "Have a good one" What should I say back to them?
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    AuroraBorealis
    AuroraBorealis
    I was also confused about this one when I visited the U.S. for the first time, simply because I wasn't used to it. "Thanks, you too" works great.
    T
    thejuice
    What's happening is confusing to answer as well
    Judge
    Judge
    The trick is not to dwell on it. It has no deep meanings or hidden agendas. It's just a simple colloquial greeting. No more, no less.
    Tony Ramirez
    Why am I ignored in every social groups I go too?
    tree
    tree
    That is an impossible question to answer
    since nobody here is an eye witness.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I could have filmed it but concent and all. New topic is going up.
    Tony Ramirez
    Will I ever in my life board a commercial flight in my lifetime like every tom dick and harry does?
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    Judge
    Judge
    People who fly for their job don't count. And that's a lot of them. Flying for business reasons was always very depressing to me. Meaning advanced training and testing...and if I didn't perform well I might have lost my job. Nope...hated flying for business. Too much dread. Besides, it seems a silly thing to brag about whether business or pleasure. :rolleyes:
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    When you live in a household where everyone insults and puts you down all your life and lived in the same city all your life with very little travel all by car or bus you understand where I am coming from. I just wanted to escape they and could never.
    Judge
    Judge
    I travel very little at all. However I have no resentment or jealousy of those who do. We all have to live our own lives and not that of others. To rely on whatever resources we have, rather than to dwell on resources we don't have.
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