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KevinMao133

KevinMao133

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  • KevinMao133
    Still don’t understand why people are obsessed with abs, nor do I understand why people shame others for looking weird
    KevinMao133
    Can’t say I deal with criticism well as I’m very sensitive

    I also struggle with low self esteem as I often feel like I have nothing to offer, even though reality is I have plenty to offer

    I don’t really interact with others but it’s not necessarily a good thing as I also need some social interactions to keep me afloat
    KevinMao133
    Controversial take: the western society is designed to make people feel dysfunctional. Dysfunction is what they want. No wonder there are so many broken people

    I need to get away from the scene, the crime scene that is causing mayhem. Only then I can rebuild myself, my identity, self worth
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    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    @Markness I will admit I am both. I can be dysfunctional while also not dysfunctional. Depends on the environment
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    FilterFreq
    I agree. It's like they want the cookie-cutter human, and if you've got any significant deficit, you just kind of get tossed aside. People of all varieties could benefit and strengthen society, but a lot of us struggle to keep up.
    Kayla55
    Kayla55
    Not sure about woke culture lies, these bikers merging into politics. Are these same bikers who burning forest holes to extract crystal meth from sinus meds, What do we know about speed and speech issues, emotions?Something about beards that I'm allergic too in men, I really hate frizzled orangey tints it's about cheaper than fake yellow hair.
    KevinMao133
    Remember when I said I wouldn’t date Chinese women?

    Now I’m all about dating them. I’m all in on the idea

    My opinions are always changing as new information piles in, new perspective being born

    I have soften a lot of my stances. I’m sure my take on feminism will change as I’m no longer in Canada
    KevinMao133
    Situational update 2:

    Like someone said, I’m a man with dignity. If I see a group with small penis energy, I steer clear. No need to engage with garbage

    I’m never going back to that group, this time is official. I have burned every bridge that existed. Feeling relieved as I do better without unnecessary distractions
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    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    @Kavigant don’t know how else to explain but I guess what I meant was people whom are not compatible with me

    When I said small penis energy, I meant those who are petty, blames you for everything, narrow minded

    Again, I’m not the best at expressing verbally so forgive me. You can ask more questions if you want
    Kavigant
    Kavigant
    No worries - I'm not offended or anything! I just thought I'd let you know that some people will make some pretty strong negative assumptions based on certain phrases you used.
    It's good to get away from people who bring you down.
    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    @Kavigant there are so many meetup groups so why focus on a group that doesn’t fit my need right?

    I don’t need them to live good anyways so I’m ok
    KevinMao133
    If you are in Toronto, don’t join the full spectrum social meetup group

    They might seem cool but they don’t discuss big ideas, nor do they condone intelligence

    If you are a person of color, outspoken like myself, forget about it
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Just remember that you having a bad experience doesn't mean everyone else would. That's over-generalization.
    KevinMao133
    People keep saying I can’t speak English

    Do they not know there are those with social anxiety? I don’t feel comfortable speaking to those whom I know I will judge me
    KevinMao133
    I swear some autistic groups are designed for idiots

    How you call yourself an autistic group but promote ABA? How you call yourself the leader of an autistic group but keep vouching for autism speaks?

    I will speak out against what I find it’s wrong and if they don’t like it, shame on them
    jsilver256
    jsilver256
    did you personally experience ABA?
    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    I did. They told me that I need to fix myself

    The ones that need fixing are them. Maybe they should’ve thought about things from a person of color’s perspective instead
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    Unfortunately ABA is heavily promoted in US and Canada. So it's not that surprising that a group would promote it. Although a little research would clearly indicate it can have a profoundly traumatic impact on patients who undergo such treatment.
    KevinMao133
    Situational update; so remember when I said I had to quit a group due to bullying, and bad people?

    Apparently the organizer wants me back, don’t know why. I don’t want to go back but a part of me also wishes to challenge myself, sort of

    I don’t know if I wish to engage with these people as it just happened
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    Tired
    Tired
    I wouldn't join back. You closed the door and showed, that you have dignity. Those people are still there, behind that door.
    Xinyta
    Xinyta
    Something to consider, is that people can manipulate. The organizer could be being genuine. Or they are putting on a guilt trip, to get you to come back.

    Trust what you know is true. If the organizer has never done anything about those that bully you. Then don't listen to the coaxing to come back.
    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    I won’t go back

    The co organizer is still blaming me, saying I’m toxic and stuff. Yeah I made mistake, messed up but guess what? Not everything is my fault

    The group isn’t for me. As for the others, I don’t care about them. They don’t place any importance in my life
    KevinMao133
    Do you guys wish there are spaces where people can chill?

    Some days I just want to relax as it helps with my mind
    Tired
    Tired
    Nature helps me, the wilder - the better.
    KevinMao133
    I made a mistake arguing with a few idiots on discord

    It’s all good. I’m doing fine. People are here are cool, so I will talk more, I suppose
    KevinMao133
    I think the more I advance in my life, the less risk I’m willing to take. I’m also change averse even though I always hated it

    Truthfully, I had a easier time taking calculated risks when I had nothing as I had nothing to lose, nothing to worry

    Somehow it can’t be overcomed, rather it can only be tamed
    KevinMao133
    I’m glad I didn’t go camping

    Feel much better sleeping at home, though I get bored and lonely at times. It happens to everyone though, we all go through stuff
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Glad you are doing okay. I am losing my freedom, l actually love being single. But it's better for me to be with a guy friend now.
    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    I think too much, that’s my issue

    I wish I can be more free but it’s on my part to be free
    KevinMao133
    I love Indian people but seeing them everywhere irks me

    I can’t go around town anymore without seeing them, them family. It’s infuriating
    tree
    tree
    What is infuriating about seeing family groups around town?
    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    Lots of them

    It reminds me how out of control everything is
    KevinMao133
    I just went through an intense panic attack, 20 minutes ago

    I legit don’t like crowds. They anger me
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I can hit panic level, my anxiety is worse. That's some of the reason l am living with someone, l feel more grounded.
    KevinMao133
    I have a question for those living in Northern Europe

    I’m currently looking into countries like Norway, Sweden, Switzerland. Scandinavia is an option too

    What’s life like? What is the cost of living? Is it neurodivergent friendly? Is it friendly for foreigners? Lot of questions, thanks
    jellyfish
    jellyfish
    Like anywhere, if one is rich, one can avoid the dumb masses. Scandinavia subsumes Norway and Sweden. Denmark is a cleaner, tidier Britain. Sweden has a nasty problem of integrating their non-Swedish poplulation, *cough*, and Switzerland, is just lovely. Neurodivergent friendly, meh, most people still don't know what it means.

    Hope this helps.
    KevinMao133
    KevinMao133
    I was looking into Japan but no thanks

    The culture there isn’t for me
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