We actually have quite a lot of conversations at this forum without anybody leading anybody. There is actually very intelligent people who don't need leaders in posts. Not sure why you decided to elect yourself to that position. I have been coming to this forum for some time and have never seen somebody who decided to elect themselves as the "leader". It's seems a tab arrogant to me.@LuxLuca and @Atrapa Almas
Just a short message. Not trying to be defensive, and LuxLuca I don't post if I'm hyped up on adrenaline I'm neither offended nor trying to offend, but I apologize if I failed with the second.
I'm doing all this posting mostly because of all the violence-centric posts. (This excludes my "lawyer up" one early on of course)
I used to work bars while I was studying. I've seen what happens when untrained people flail away at each other (random, and I've seen some moderately nasty accidental injuries). I've also seen what happens when trained or experienced people match up with untrained people. In this case the injuries aren't random, but they can happen.
So mostly I'd like to see a lot less of people in this thread implying or suggesting violence might be the answer - including reminiscing over a "random vs random" victory.
The other stuff is mostly incidental. For example any discussion of the "doormat method" seems to reliably induce its opposite. But I probably over-reacted to those posts..
I won't stop advocating against violence. But I'm happy to let everything else go.
@Atrapa Almas
I actually wrote a response to your "martial arts training is good" post, which I liked a lot;, agree with; and have experienced directly myself (5 years or so, and it got me out of some fights, and helped never get into one).
Unfortunately the thread went "high intensity" as I was writing it, so my post is saved, but there's nowhere to post it.
Maybe I'll share it via a conversation later
This is free flow of opinions and experiences. The OP is always welcome to steer the tone as they wish.
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