Polchinski
Active Member
@mysterionz Okay, lets put it this way.
We were talking about a general pattern about the way ASD affects people. One of the things ASD causes is that it makes it hard to communicate without affecting others. That is a general statement, it doesn't pertain to anybody specific.
Then you mentioned "fake claiming" in connection to that statement. So -- to my ear -- it also sounded general statement. Namely, the one that drew connection between fake claiming and difficulty of not offending people. But I was confused where the connection was.
Then you brought up Luca. And you said there was connection in Luca's case. Namely, that you were worried about offending Luca by insinuating she is fake-claiming. But this time its no longer a general thing, it is something very specific to your interaction with Luca.
Yet, prior to mentioning Luca, you did bring up "fake claiming" as a general issue, when you haven't "yet" mentioned Luca's name. So are you saying that with people other than Luca this phenomenon happens as well? Are you saying that the reason people other than Luca get offended is because they also perceive various communication tones as accusations of fake claiming?
If the answer to the above paragraph is yes, can you elaborate?
We were talking about a general pattern about the way ASD affects people. One of the things ASD causes is that it makes it hard to communicate without affecting others. That is a general statement, it doesn't pertain to anybody specific.
Then you mentioned "fake claiming" in connection to that statement. So -- to my ear -- it also sounded general statement. Namely, the one that drew connection between fake claiming and difficulty of not offending people. But I was confused where the connection was.
Then you brought up Luca. And you said there was connection in Luca's case. Namely, that you were worried about offending Luca by insinuating she is fake-claiming. But this time its no longer a general thing, it is something very specific to your interaction with Luca.
Yet, prior to mentioning Luca, you did bring up "fake claiming" as a general issue, when you haven't "yet" mentioned Luca's name. So are you saying that with people other than Luca this phenomenon happens as well? Are you saying that the reason people other than Luca get offended is because they also perceive various communication tones as accusations of fake claiming?
If the answer to the above paragraph is yes, can you elaborate?