All of it.So those times you’re overwhelmed and feels like it will end in disaster you break up with the person? That is where his head is. Or that he can’t be the partner I want or need which isn’t at all the case.
If I can’t satisfy her needs then if can never work and I should stop torturing myself and slowing her down. It doesn’t matter what “needs” I’m failing at: financial, travel/vacations, family, etc. Example: If I was planning already on having a vasectomy because I REALLY don’t want children but she came from a huge family and was determined to have a lot of kids, then why continue wasting eachother’s time? Let’s just move on.
Particularly if I’m dealing with a bunch of stress in my own life already, I might just amputate this relationship from my life and never look back.